When my daughter Lucy came home in tears after babysitting for a week, I was furious. Our neighbor, Mrs. Carpenter, had promised to pay Lucy for her time but refused, calling it a “life lesson.” I wasn’t about to let this injustice slide. I decided to teach Mrs. Carpenter a lesson she wouldn’t soon forget.
Lucy came through the door, her face pale, eyes brimming with tears. It was so unlike her. Lucy was a tough girl, and seeing her this upset made my heart sink. “Lucy, what happened?” I asked, rushing to her side.
She shook her head at first, wiping her face, trying to regain her composure. After a moment, she finally whispered, “Mom, Mrs. Carpenter refused to pay me.”
I was confused. “What do you mean she didn’t pay you? Why?”
“She said it was a life lesson, that I should’ve gotten everything in writing,” Lucy explained, tears streaming down her face again. “She said babysitting was the hard work lesson and that was payment enough. Then she slammed the door in my face.”
My blood boiled. “Wait. So she didn’t pay you anything? After a full week of babysitting?”
Lucy shook her head. She continued to tell me how Mrs. Carpenter’s children had been a nightmare to manage—throwing toys, refusing to listen, and even mocking her attempts to make them do their reading. “She didn’t care at all, Mom. She just laughed and said I should learn how to work without expecting anything.”
Hearing this, I could feel my anger rise. Lucy had worked for five days, four hours each day. She’d earned $220 that she planned to use for an art class she had been saving up for. Without hesitation, I reached into my purse and handed her the money.
“Here, sweetie. You earned this. Mrs. Carpenter may not value your hard work, but I do.”
Lucy stared at me, wide-eyed. “But Mom, you don’t owe me anything. Mrs. Carpenter does.”
“Don’t worry about it,” I told her. “This isn’t a freebie. I’m going to handle Mrs. Carpenter myself.”
As I prepared dinner that evening, I couldn’t stop thinking about what Mrs. Carpenter had done. I’d known her for years—she was one of those “tough love” types who believed children needed to learn things the hard way. But this wasn’t tough love. This was exploitation, plain and simple.
I knew marching over to demand payment wouldn’t work with someone like her. I needed a more strategic plan.
The next morning, I had a plan ready. I rang Mrs. Carpenter’s doorbell with a pleasant smile on my face. “Rebecca! What brings you here?” she asked, clearly caught off guard.
“Oh, I just wanted to thank you personally,” I replied sweetly.
She looked confused. “Thank me? For what?”
“For the valuable life lesson you taught Lucy,” I said. “You know, the one about contracts and trust?”
Her smile grew smug, but I wasn’t done. “I’ve been telling all the other moms about it. They found it fascinating that you had a teenage girl babysit for a week without paying her.”
Her smile quickly faded as I pulled out my phone. “I even posted about it in our neighborhood Facebook group. People are really curious to hear more.”
I watched as her face turned pale. “Rebecca, you didn’t—”
“Oh, don’t worry. I just shared the truth,” I said. “Everyone’s quite interested. Melissa from down the street even called it ‘disgraceful.’ And Janet from the PTA? She’s thinking of bringing it up at the next meeting.”
Mrs. Carpenter’s hands shook as she realized the damage this would do to her reputation. “Rebecca, I never meant—”
I cut her off with a smile. “Sometimes, people need to learn things the hard way. Right?”
That evening, Lucy came home with an envelope. “Mom! Mrs. Carpenter gave me the money! She said there was a mix-up with the payment timing.”
I hugged Lucy and smiled. “I’m glad she fixed her mistake.”
Some might say what I did was petty, but as I listened to Lucy happily talking about the art class she could now take, I knew I’d do it all over again.
